I can be your Sadistic and Cruel Mistress. On the other hand, FemDom can be also sensual and seductive... Tie and tease, delayed orgasm etc. I will tell you what to do to make me happy, how to serve Me. No pain and punishment for good boys :o) I am meeting only with submissive and/or Fetishists. submissive is a person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person. a submissive can be a slave and/or the bottom (the person being tied up or whipped). Fetishist belief in or use in Fetishes. The compulsive use of some object, or part of the body, as a stimulus in the course of attaining sexual gratification, as a Latex clothes, a Shoe/Feet, a lock of Hair etc.